Simple Changes: Condolence Letters

Everyone has an opinion on what is important when it comes to programs and policies regarding military families. And while the recent initiatives to support military families are making headway that is appreciated by many, I see some simple changes that could solve important issues that face many families in our community. Once such simple change is the current policy on condolence letters that are sent to the families of the fallen.

Presently, no letters of condolence are sent from the President to families who have lost their service member if they commit suicide (even while serving their country overseas). This policy seems counterintuitive to the movement within our community to recognize and prevent suicides within the military.

U.S. Senate: Senators Call on President to Change Condolence Letter Policy for Military Suicide Victims - Fox News

From the invasion of Afghanistan until last summer, the U.S. military had lost 761 soldiers in combat there. But a higher number in the service — 817 — had taken their own lives over the same period - Time Magazine

Between 2005 - 2009, more than 1,100 members of the Armed Forces killed themselves. These soldiers, who have faced the enemy of mental anguish and lost their struggle, deserve recognition of their sacrifice. This policy has been reviewed by the Obama administration since December of 2009. Yet, the policy has not been reversed leaving some families to face the tragedy of suicide with one more stigma. No letter. No thank you for their loved ones' sacrifice and service.

This is a simple change that needs to happen for these military families. I'm not sure what is keeping it from happening.


UPDATE: 3 days after this post the White House changed it's policy on condolence letters to include those service members who commit suicide.